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Sunday, March 3, 2013

Being best friends in a relationship

Came across this image in Facebook and I agreed wholeheartedly with the statement,
"The best relationship is when you can act like lovers and best friends at the same time"



When two person are best friends, they would enjoy each other's company tremendously and they would always have a kick when they do things together. Laughing at random things, teasing each other like smacking each other, talk non-stop to each other, bitching the hell out of people that you two detest. Add that into a relationship and it will be the best relationship ever, lovers don't always do things together and sometimes there will be periods of silence, if you two know each other so well, you would know why he or she is keeping quiet.

Most of the time, people get into relationship without getting to know each other very well. When something bad happens, they wouldn't know how to solve the problems together and the relationship might fail or stop, but, if both are good friends, chances are they would more likely to talk things out and reconcile together, thus saving the relationship.

My parents are best friends and lovers at the same time, their relationship is still going strong and they play online games together like friends do. They tease each other, talk to each other like best of friends! Makes me happy when I see them being happy together, sometimes they would fight but like best friends, they would always patch things up and get back together.

If should the relationship fail, you can always get back to a level called best friends. Closure would be easier since both should be understanding of one another.

I am a best friend and a lover to my boyfriend at the same time. :D

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